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The chart read that the patient had been reared as a girl; to facilitate the
success of that process, and as was the medically recommended custom
in these cases (Money and Ehrhardt, 1996; Colapinto, 2000), she had
never been told any of the true facts surrounding her birth. Her medical
chart, both inside and on the cover, contained numerous warnings to
whoever might read it that under no circumstances was the patient to be
told about her true nature. Yet I, a complete stranger who would never
meet with her again, had been given that personal information about the
patient.2
This being one of my first clinical interviews with a "live" patient, I anxiously
asked a basic gynecological history question: "When was your last
menstrual period?" She icily responded, "I don't have any". I thought to
myself, "Of course, she didn't have periods. She had no uterus. How
could I be so stupid to ask her that question?" I felt guilty and embarrassed.
I later came to understand that, with this "interesting case", I was
not the first curious medical student to bumblingly ask about her gynecological
history.
The patient understood that she had been born without a uterus but
said she could nevertheless be a mother if she chose to marry and adopt
children. In fact, she thought of herself as a young woman - as did I.
However, the medical profession calls her a male pseudohermaphrodite.
Male because she was born with testes, and pseudo -, as opposed to a
"true" hermaphrodite, because she was born with testicular but no ovarian
tissue. What does all that mean clinically? At the time, the gynecology
chief resident to whom I had to report after speaking with the patient
joked, "Great looking guy, huh?" Still feeling guilty about my own faux
pas, I did not find the remark very funny. Yet our reactions may be typical
of the kinds of responses evoked when we meet people who do not conform
to our conventional expectations of "male" and "female."
The study of human sexual identities is changing, and these changes
are forcing analysts to think about sexualities in ways never envisioned by
our psychoanalytic forbears. These changes also require that we be aware
of some of the limitations imposed on us by our own theoretical traditions.
Toward that end, this paper begins with a definition of terms, which
is followed by a review of historical assumptions underlying the theory of
bisexuality. The next section introduces the role of categories and hierarchies
in general and the clinical meaning of sexual hierarchies in particular.
This is followed by a discussion of the meanings and uses of the concept
of "the natural." The final section concludes with a commentary on
intersexuality as an example of both the social and the surgical construction
of gender.
Sexual orientation refers to a person's erotic response tendency or sexual
attractions, be they homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual (Kinsey,
Pomeroy, and Martin, 1948; Kinsey et al., 1953; also see Drescher, Stein,
and Byne, 2005 for further discussion). Sexual orientation can be assessed
through such parameters as the proportion of dreams and fantasies directed
to one or the other sex, the sex of one's sexual partners, and the
extent of physiological response to erotic stimuli associated with one or
both sexes.
The terms gay, gay man, lesbian, and bisexual are sexual identities and
refer to men and women who openly recognize, to some degree, their homosexual
or bisexual attractions. Being gay or lesbian is not the same as
being a homosexual. The latter is a medical term - usually with pejorative
connotations - that takes one aspect of a person's identity, his or her sexual
attractions, and treats it as if it were the sum of the person's entire
identity (Magee and Miller, 1997). A sexual identity is not the same as a
sexual orientation. Furthermore, one's sexual orientation and sexual
identity can be further distinguished from one's sexuality or sexual behaviors.
For example, a self-identified "celibate gay priest" has a homosexual
orientation, a gay sexual identity, but refrains from sexual behavior. There
is also a range of sexual identities in populations at risk for HIV and AIDS
(Halkitis, Wilton, and Drescher, 2005). Described behaviorally as men
who have sex with men (MSM), such men may be gay or they may not necessarily
think of themselves as gay, or even as homosexual. For example,
a prison inmate with a heterosexual orientation may engage in homosexual
behavior and never consider that he has anything but a heterosexual
identity. These examples illustrate how categories and classification systems
may conflict with subjective experiences of the meaning of homosexuality.
While sex usually refers to the biological attributes of being male or female,gender - with which "sex" is often conflated - usually refers to the psychological and social attributes of the sexes. Gender identity refers to a persistent sense of oneself as being male or female (Money and Ehrhardt, 1996; Stoller, 1968). Historically, psychoanalysts presumed the cause of homosexuality to be confusion about one's own gender identity, which was then thought to cause confusion about the sex to which one was attracted.
Gender stability refers to a child's understanding that one's sex at birth
remains the same throughout life; that is, an understanding that girls are
born as girls and grow up to be women and that boys grow up to be men.
Gender constancy refers to a child's understanding that external changes
in appearance or activity do not change one's gender (Kohlberg, 1966).
For example, a boy learns that even if he changes his physical appearance
by putting on a dress or growing long hair, he remains a boy.
Gender beliefs (Drescher, 1998) are cultural ideas about the essential
qualities of men and women. These beliefs are expressed in everyday language
regarding the gendered meanings of what people do.
Transsexualism consists of a strong and persistent cross-gender identification,
discomfort with one's biological sex (gender dysphoria), and a
wish to acquire the characteristics of the other sex, which may lead them
to seek sex-reassignment surgery. A person born a man who transitions
to being a woman is called a male to female (MTF) transsexual. Someone
born a woman who transitions to being a man is a female to male (FTM)
transsexual.4 Complicating matters further, cross-gender identifications
give little indication of a transsexual person's eventual sexual orientation.
For example, depending on the person, a fully transitioned, postoperative
MTF transsexual may have sexual feelings for a man (heterosexual MTF)
or for a woman (homosexual MTF) (Bornstein, 1994; Lawrence, 2004; Leli
scher, 2004).
Not all people with cross-gendered identifications desire, seek or obtain
transsexual surgery. Some may undergo a partial transition, either by
wearing the clothing or accessories of the non
l gender or by taking
hormone supplements to acquire secondary sexual characteristics of the
other gender (Blanchard, 1993a, b). Transgender is an umbrella term and
both transsexuals as well as individuals with gender dysphoria
who do not fully transition. The term also includes transvestites.5 Crossdressing
is strongly linked in the popular imagination with homosexuality,
although fetishistic cross-dressers are frequently married, heterosexual
men. While most gay men and women do not cross dress, there are
social venues within gay and lesbian communities that allow for public
-dressing. These may include community events (gay pride, Halloween,
r Mardi Gras parades) or paid entertainment (drag shows).
Intersex was once referred to as hermaphroditism. In the words of one
intersex activist group, it is "technically . . . a "congenital anomaly of the
reproductive and sexual system." Intersex people are born with external
genitalia, internal reproductive organs, and possibly endocrine systems
that are different from those of most other people. There is no single ' intersex
body' intersex encompasses a wide variety of conditions that do
not have anything in common except that they are deemed "abnormal" by
society. What makes intersex people similar is their experiences of medicalization,
not biology. Intersex is not an identity. While some intersex
people do reclaim it as part of their identity, it is not a freely chosen category
of gender. . . . Most intersex people identify as men or women."
6
There is a growing movement to redefine intersex conditions as disorders
of sex development (DSD).7
Gender role refers to overtly displayed gender - associated social behavior, which establish one's position - both for oneself and for others - as a member of one sex or the other (Kohlberg, 1966). It represents the perception of a person's ability to act as a man or a woman should
conventionally behave in public. While gender identity describes an inner, subjective experience of being male or female, gender role is the external markers of masculinity, femininity, or androgyny.
During most of the 20th century, hermaphrodites were relegated to the
shadows. By the late 1990s, however, intersex persons began appearing
publicly. They formed support groups like the Intersex Society of North
American (ISNA)9 and provocatively documented their experiences as
Hermaphrodites with Attitude.10 Intersex activists and their advocates
began a process - one that continues to this day - of questioning both the
necessity of genital surgeries and the secrecy that traditionally surrounds
the medical treatment of intersex conditions (Diamond and Sigmundson,
1997; Dreger, 1998, 1999; Kessler, 1998; Fausto-Sterling, 2000; Rosario,
2006). Like the sexual minority groups that preceded them - gays, lesbians,
bisexuals, transsexuals, transgenders - some intersex activists have
raised the question, What is an intersex identity?
Amidst this growing profusion of sexual and gender identities, many
analysts are left perplexed. All too often, our training does not include discussions
about what it might mean to identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual,
transsexual, transgender, or intersex. In part, our difficulties may stem
from theoretical traditions, going back to Freud, that skew toward questions
about etiology (i.e., why is the person gay?) rather than focusing on
meanings (i.e., what does it mean for this person to call herself gay?) (See
Drescher, 1998, 2002b, and 2002c for more detailed discussions of these
questions.)
On the basis of ideas developed in his early years of collaboration with
Wilhelm Fliess (Freud, 1887 - 1902; Jones, 1961), Freud took a 19th-century
concept, bisexuality, and made it a linchpin of 20th- century psychoanalysis.
In the 19th century, physical bisexuality was a popularly held scientific
belief. It first referred to the hypothetical ability of an organism to develop
as either a male or a female of its species. Scientists had observed
the capacity in some species to develop and reproduce as either male or
female. When it was discovered that human embryos did not develop into
either males or females until the 12th week of gestation, it was believed
that human beings carried a bisexual potential in them as well. For, in that
era, scientists still believed that ontogeny, the development of an individual
in utero, reproduced phylogeny, the evolution of that individual's
species. Freud, among others, would take this paradigm one step further
to hypothesize that human beings are psychologically bisexual. 11
Bisexuality, whether biological or psychological, presumes that there
are only two sexes: male and female. Girls are made of sugar, spice, and
everything nice, and boys of snails and puppy dog tails. In what queer
theorists refer to as the gender binary, male and female are the only two
essential categories: these classifications define all human sexualities,
insofar as the wide diversity of sexual identities and practices are envisioned
as reflecting some hybrid of these two basic ingredients. The nursery
rhyme equivalents would be spiced snails, perhaps, or sugared puppy
dog tails. In psychoanalysis, a long - standing formula has been that gay
men identify with their mothers (Freud, 1910) and lesbians are women
who act like men (Freud, 1920).
Formulations based on gender binaries are not limited to psychoanalysis
and routinely appear in patient narratives:
A recounted a dream in which he was kissing a woman. He remembered
having the feeling, when he awoke, of being in a therapy relationship with
her. In his associations, A wondered if there was some connection between
the woman in the dream and his male therapist. The feeling in the dream
made him worry whether A might really be "gay", even though he was
aroused only by - and his sexual activities were exclusively with - women.
The therapist suggested that perhaps getting help from a man stirred anxiety
in the patient because he did not know how to define his gendered self
in their relationship. They both acknowledged that A desired nurturance
from the male therapist, just as he had desired it in the past from his unavailable
father. However, A worried that this desire might mean that he
was "gay", by which he meant a man who had the feelings of a woman. In
other words, "gay" was the gendered meaning that which he applied to his
desire for nurturance; his awareness of this feeling left him wondering
whether having it defined him as masculine or feminine.
The example of A's gender beliefs about the masculine or feminine
meanings of his feelings is one of many illustrations of gender binaries. In
many aspects of their clinical work, analysts find bisexuality to be a useful
heuristic. They will routinely offer narratives of bisexuality to widen the
two gender categories (male and female) in ways that increase patients'
acceptable modes of expression; for example, by affirming a man's wish
to cry or a woman's desire to assert herself.
Bisexual narratives may also be reassuring to the preoperative male to
female (MTF) transsexual, whose subjectivity is captured in the following
statement: "I feel myself to be a woman trapped in the body of a man. I
want to have surgery so my physical gender matches my psychological
gender."Â Analysts like Robert Stoller (1968, 1985) theorized that such a
person has a woman's core gender identity in a man's body. In fact, some
transsexuals do define their identities by using such masculine - feminine
binary distinctions. Not all transgender persons, however, share that subjectivity.
As mentioned, not everyone with gender dysphoria wants sexreassignment
surgery (SRS). Nor does every anatomic man who wants SRS
feel like a woman inside.12 In fact, emerging preoperative and postoperative
identities in the transgender community are bending the conventional
categories of gender and sexual identity into strange new shapes (Bornstein,
1994; Wilchins, 1997; Denny, 2002; Leli and Drescher, 2004). To paraphrase
the subjectivity of another patient, "I feel myself to have a
woman's feelings in the body of man. However, I am only attracted to
women and not to men at all. So when I make love to my girlfriend, I
think of myself as something like a lesbian in the body of a man." It
should be noted that the awkward phrasing reflects the difficulties in capturing
this subjectivity in conventional language.
Since the 1950s, the transsexual phenomenon and transgender politics
have elicited questions about traditional gender beliefs (Garber, 1989).
More recently, however, additional challenges to gender categories have
been raised as a result of increased attention to the experiences of the intersexed
(Dreger, 1998, 1999; Kessler, 1998; Rosario, 2006). One historical
account from Fausto-Sterling (2000) reads like a gender - bending tragicomedy:
In Piedra, Italy, in 1601, a young soldier named Daniel Burghammer
shocked his regiment when he gave birth to a healthy baby girl. After his
alarmed wife called in his army captain, he confessed to being half male
and half female. Christened as a male, he had served as a soldier for seven
years while also a practicing blacksmith. The baby's father, Burghammer
said, was a Spanish soldier. Uncertain of what to do, the captain called in
Church authorities, who decided to go ahead and christen the baby, whom
they named Elizabeth. After she was weaned - Burghammer nursed the
child with his female breast - several towns competed for the right to adopt
her. The Church declared the child's birth a miracle, but granted Burghammer's
wife a divorce, suggesting that it found Burghammer's ability to give
birth incompatible with the role of husband [p. 35].
Fausto-Sterling notes that prior to the 19th century, "biologists and
physicians...did not have the social prestige and authority of today's professionals
and were not the only ones in a position to define and regulate
the hermaphrodite" (p. 34). Before the ascent of the medical and scientific
professions, as in the case of Daniel Burghammer, it was the church that
served as the official regulatory agency of gender. Its reference manual
was the bible, which officially acknowledges the existence of only two
sexes. In their decision to assign Burghammer to a female gender, church
officials acted on the belief that she having given birth to a child trumped
not only his being a soldier and a blacksmith, but also a lifetime reared as
a man.
In time, many official powers of the church were ceded to what Szasz
(1974) called the Therapeutic State. In the process, the study of nature
moved from the province of religion to that of science. By the 19th century,
the assignment of hermaphrodites to either one sex or the other increasingly
became a scientific and medical concern. However, scientific
authorities, much like the religious authorities before them, believed that
there were only two sexes. They still divided the gender baby in half, although
they did so differently.
Science's binary categorization of male and female led to a classification
system that distinguished between true and pseudo-hermaphrodites.
Where persons with Burghammer's history were once simply "hermaphrodites",
scientists decreed the true hermaphroditic condition to be extremely rare. To
be true hermaphrodites, individuals had to have some combination of both
male and female gonads. Thus, the organs of sexual reproduction, by shared
scientific agreement, arbitrarily became the defining factor in determining an
individual's "true"Â biological sex. Consequently, "a body with two ovaries,
no matter how many masculine features it might have was [a] female
[pseudohermaphrodite]. No matter if a pair of testes were nonfunctional and
the person possessing them had a vagina and a breast, testes make the body
[a] male [pseudohermaphrodite]" [Fausto-Sterling, 2000, p. 38].
One result of employing this classification system was that the categories
of male and female expanded while the third category - the hermaphrodite -
shrank significantly in size. As Fausto-Sterling puts it, "People
of mixed sex all but disappeared, not because they had become rarer,
but because scientific methods classified them out of existence" (p. 39).
In the 19th century, this tendency to reinforce male - female binaries informed
Freud's theories as well. His belief in two genders would eventually
pit psychoanalysis against third=sex theories, the earliest proponent
of which was Karl Heinrich Ulrichs (1864). Ulrichs, the historical equivalent
of what today might be called a gay political activist, argued that
some men were born with a woman's spirit trapped in their bodies. He
believed this explained their attraction to men. Because the terms homosexuality
and homosexual would not be coined until 1869 (Bullough,1979),
Ulrichs designated the condition Uranism, and persons who practiced
Uranian love were called Urnings.13 He believed that urnings constituted
a third sex that was neither male nor female. 14
Almost half a century after Ulrichs, the most prominent spokesperson
for third - sex views was Magnus Hirschfeld. As an openly homosexual
psychiatrist, he led the German homophile movement in Freud's time
(Lauritsen and Thorstad, 1974). Hirschfeld was an early member of the
psychoanalytic movement, but an early dropout as well. After he left,
Freud (1911) wrote to Jung: "Magnus Hirschfeld has left our ranks in
Berlin. No great loss, he is a flabby, unappetizing fellow, absolutely incapable
of learning anything. Of course he takes your remark at the Congress
as a pretext; homosexual touchiness. Not worth a tear (pp. 453 - 54).
Hirschfeld's departure, however, eventually led Freud to criticize third - sex
theories, although he did so without explicitly mentioning either Ulrichs
or Hirschfeld by name. He wrote in a 1915 footnote added to The
Three Essays (1905):
Psychoanalytic research is most decidedly opposed to any attempt at separating
off homosexuals from the rest of mankind as a group of special character...
it has found that all human beings are capable of making a homosexual
object - choice and have in fact made one in their unconscious
. . . psycho - analysis considers that a choice of an object independently of its
sex - freedom to range equally over male and female objects - as it is found
in childhood, in primitive states of society and early periods of history, is
the original basis from which, as a result of restriction in one direction or the
other, both the normal and the inverted types develop [pp. 145 - 146].
Ironically, in today's climate of rapprochement between the psychoanalytic
and the gay communities, many cite this footnote to illustrate
Freud's pro - gay sympathies. However, in the original, historical context,
what sounds like principled opposition to "any attempt at separating off
homosexuals from the rest of mankind as a group of special character"
was actually Freud's theoretical rebuff of Hirschfeld and the German homophile
movement he led: the belief that homosexuals constitute a biological,
third sex. If, as Freud argued, all persons were intrinsically bisexual,
there could be no such thing as a third sex. Instead, there could only
be two sexes, everyone having some capacity to express, either consciously
or unconsciously, both masculine and feminine instincts.15
The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. Not all things are black
nor all things white. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that nature rarely deals
with discrete categories. Only the human mind invents categories and tries
to force facts into separated pigeon-holes. The living world is a continuum
in each and every one of its aspects. The sooner we learn this concerning
human sexual behavior the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of
the realities of sex [p. 639].
Although Kinsey opposed dichotomous thinking, he nevertheless succumbed
to it by creating a homosexuality - heterosexuality continuum.
Similar to the male - female binary preceding it, this was a polarization of
human sexual experience that arbitrarily designated the two ends as essentialist
categories. While this polarization may be a reasonable way to
organize research data scientifically for further testing, one could argue
that classification systems are not essential truths. To his credit, Kinsey did
the best he could; his bisexuality scale was wider in scope than were previous
classification systems. Furthermore, eliminating categories and continua
from thought or speech would be akin to expunging metaphor; it
would make normal communication almost impossible. However, although
categories cannot be eliminated, queer theorists have demonstrated
how they can be deconstructed.
Gender theorists and queer theorists offer alternative ways to think
about the cultural underpinnings of "natural" categories like "man" and
"woman"(Foucault, 1978). How might one go about reframing a traditional
gender narrative? Consider the biblical story of Genesis, in which
God created man. Man, in the Judeo-Christian tradition, is the first gender
category. The subsequent creation of woman from man's rib produced a
second gender category. Perhaps because of humanity's competitive nature
(I address the subject of nature later), the existence of two categories
has frequently led to discussions of which is the "better" category, man or
woman. There are those who believe that having been created first means
that man is, by birthright, superior. This is, of course, a fundamental tenet
of patriarchy. Only recently in the course of human history have feminists
countered with the reasonably plausible argument that the later model
improved on the first (de Beauvoir, 1952).16
The use of gender as a way of ranking is a common way to organize experience.
When categories are compared with each other, they almost inevitably
lead to hierarchies. It seems unlikely that any amount of "politically
correct" policing of the language will change that. Yet attention to
these hierarchies can serve purposes other than political ones. For deconstructing
categories and hierarchies offers clinicians a potential way to understand
patients - value systems.17
Consider, for example, sexual hierarchies, the ordering of some sexual
behaviors as either better or worse than others in terms of implicit or explicit
values (Drescher, 1998). Anthropologist Gayle Rubin (1984) refers to
such hierarchies in her description of sexual behaviors that lie inside and
outside the "charmed circle":
[S]exuality in the charmed circle is "good","normal",and "natural" and
should ideally be heterosexual, marital, monogamous, reproductive, and
non-commercial. It should be coupled, relational, within the same generation,
and occur at home. It should not involve pornography, fetish objects,
sex toys of any sort, or roles other than male or female. Any sex that violates
these rules is part of the outer limits, meaning it is "bad" , "abnormal" or
"unnatural". Bad sex may be homosexual, unmarried, promiscuous, nonprocreative,
or commercial. It may be masturbatory or take place at orgies,
may be casual, may cross generational lines, and may take place in "public",
or at least in the bushes or in the baths. It may involve the use of pornography,
fetish objects, sex toys, or unusual roles [pp. 14-15].
In clinical practice, patients often discuss their sexual hierarchies - and
an individual patient may have more than one. For example, B is a 30 -
something gay man unsuccessfully struggling to meet someone for a longterm
relationship. He is shy and thinks of himself as unattractive. He is
dating someone but doesn't feel it is going well:
B: I had a date last night. There was a very powerful attraction to each other.
So much so that we went home and made out. Nothing sexual, we wanted
to build a relationship, not just jump in the sack the first night. That was the
first week in December, now it is March and it's only been three dates. I try
to get more dates, he is not forthcoming. But on the date he is very attentive,
tells me how wonderful it is to be with me, how nice it is.
Later in the session, B goes on to describe having gone alone to a gay
bar where there were half-naked dancing boys. He describes, in critical
terms, what he sees as the "sorry spectacle" of a 40-year-old man putting
dollar bills in a dancer's G - string. The therapist asks if he has ever paid another
man for sex:
B: No, but I think about it. I think it is degrading. It seems an equal amount
of negative reasons not to do it as there are positive. It would be a muscle
stud that I could never attract myself. As soon as the hour was up, or my
hundred dollars or two hundred dollars is gone, he's not gong to call me for
a date. I've never been approached by a hustler. If I had been, it would ease
the process. I definitely don't see myself going to a hustler. I also see it as a
quick fix. I don't see it as an alternative to finding a relationship and a husband.
I have nothing against prostitution. I don't see it as wrong. It
shouldn't be outlawed. People do need those services, same thing with
pornography. I get angry when people try to ban pornography. People
need that outlet, people use those services but it's somebody I don't want to
be. I don't want to be so desperate to do it.
B's sexual hierarchy might look something like this: waiting to have sex
after many dates >having sex on the first date > having paid sexual relationships.
The latter category could be further broken down hierarchically
into being approached by a hustler for sex >approaching a hustler for sex.
A therapist could accept this hierarchy at face value or might question
how this arrangement of categories evolved. If she chooses to ask, she
might hear a story about what B values or devalues in himself and in others.
When listened to in this way, patient accounts can be heard as moral
narratives (Drescher, 1998; 2002b), stories about what patients believe to
be good or bad about themselves or others. Usually these narratives are
told in terms of what is better or worse, healthier or sicker, more grownup
or less mature. Sometimes patients think about these rankings consciously.
In B's case, his difficulties in achieving a long-term relationship
made him think of himself as a failure, presumably destined to pay for sex
as he got older.18
When listening to the ranking orders of patients, it is also extremely
helpful for therapists to be consciously aware of their own hierarchy of
values. To know what a therapist values and devalues in patients, or in
herself, is a vital way to understanding the countertransference. When listening
to patients, analysts will inevitably filter the material through their
own values in general and their own sexual hierarchies in particular
(Drescher, 1997). What analysts hear through their own filters may inevitably
affect the kinds of interventions they do and do not make with
patients.
Freud (1905), for example, drew a charmed circle in Three Essays.
There, he classified homosexuality, along with bestiality and pedophilia,
as a "deviation in respect to the object." Freud put genital sexuality, the insertion
of a penis into a vagina, in the charmed circle. Surprisingly, given
that he was an avowed atheist, he also put genitality on a higher spiritual
plane as well:
[T]he perverse forms of intercourse between the two sexes, in which other
parts of the body take over the role of the genitals, have undoubtedly increased
in social importance. These activities cannot, however, be regarded
as being as harmless as analogous extensions [of the sexual aim] in love relationships.
They are ethically objectionable, for they degrade the relationships
of love between two human beings from a serious matter to a convenient
game, attended by no risk and no spiritual participation [Freud, 1908, p.200].
In classical psychoanalysis, sexual hierarchies blend imperceptibly into
developmental ones. The oral and anal phases, for example, were considered
by Freud and Abraham (1924) to be immature stops on the road to
mature genitality. Consequently, sexual activities other than inserting a
penis in a vagina, which in effect encompasses all homosexual behaviors,
are considered either fixations or regressions.19 Classical analysts, however,
are not alone in generating hierarchies. Relational analysts often end
reports of "successful" cases with the proud announcement of a patient's
marriage or having a child (Trop and Stolorow, 1992).
In sins according to nature (peccata secundum naturam), the sin is
determined as being "contrary to right reason": e.g., fornication, rape, incest,
adultery, sacrilege. The lack of conformity to right reason is common to all
sexual sins.
In sins against nature (peccata contra naturam), the sin contains an
additional aspect; it is not only against reason but it is also inconsistent with
the end of the venereal act, i.e., the begetting of children: e.g., masturbation,
bestiality, homosexual activity, contraception [Coleman, 1995, p. 76].
In our culture, a belief in the goodness of nature is a very old one that
permeates almost all levels of discourse. That which is natural is given
greater hierarchical value than that which is "œunnatural."For example, in
contemporary culture, natural is a highly prized category used to market
commodities. To call something natural is another way of saying that it is
good, or at least that it is better than something that is not natural. This
doctrine operates not only in the marketing of yogurt or cotton, but also
in science and politics as well. Saying people are "born gay" is another
way of saying it is a natural occurrence, rather than a moral failing.
In Western culture's shift from religious to modern scientific thought,
the language of science appropriated and perpetuated traditional religion's
naturalizing arguments (Szasz, 1974). Aquinas's concept of "sins
against nature," for example, provides a blueprint for the moral disapproval
that flourishes, in thinly disguised forms, in scientific and medical
theories. Consider the work of 19th-century degeneracy theorist Richard
von Krafft-Ebing (1886), whose vision of an intentional evolutionary force
is not much different from historical religious beliefs in God's wishes for
mankind:
The propagation of the human race is not left to mere accident or the
caprices of the individuals, but is guaranteed by the hidden laws of nature
which are enforced by a mighty, irresistible impulse. Sensual enjoyment
and physical fitness are not the only conditions for the enforcement of these
laws, but higher motives and aims, such as the desire to continue the
species or the individuality of mental and physical qualities beyond time
and space, exert a considerable influence. Man puts himself at once on a
level with the beast if he seeks to gratify lust alone, but he elevates his
superior position when by curbing the animal desire he combines with the
sexual functions ideas of morality, of the sublime, and the beautiful [p. 23].
It is often true in religion, and unfortunately it is sometimes true in science
and psychoanalysis as well, that one can be admonished for behaving
in ways that nature presumably never intended. Freud, for example,
took such a moral stance when he chastised an analysand who asked why
people should not freely express their natural, homosexual instincts:
Normal people have a certain homosexual component and a very strong
heterosexual component. The homosexual component should be sublimated
as it now is in society; it is one of the most valuable human assets,
and should be put to social uses. One cannot give one's impulses free rein.
Your attitude reminds me of a child who just discovered everybody defecates
and who then demands that everybody ought to defecate in public;
that cannot be [Wortis, 1954, pp. 99 - 100].
These moralizing preoccupations with the will of nature persist into
modern times as well:
Psychoanalysis reveals that sexual behavior is not an arbitrary set or rules
set down by no - one - knows - who for purposes which no one understands.
Our sexual patterns are a product of our biological past, a result of man's
collective experience in his long biological and social evolutionary march.
They make possible the cooperative coexistence of human beings with one
another. At the individual level, they create a balance between the demands
of sexual instinct and the external realities surrounding each of us. Not all
cultures survive - the majority have not - and anthropologists tell us that serious
flaws in sexual codes and institutions have undoubtedly played a significant
role in many a culture's demise [Socarides, 1994].
Whoever defines nature, whether in religion, science, or psychoanalysis,
has an opportunity to claim some moral high ground. However
among Darwin's most revolutionary ideas was the notion that nature is
neither good nor bad. Perhaps even more unsettling to thousands of years
of Western tradition and philosophy, Darwin suggested that nature cannot
be anthropomorphized and thus may be completely indifferent to the
moral concerns and intentions of mankind. That insight may have been
the 19th century's most disturbing paradigm shift. But if that was not
disturbing enough, in the early study of hermaphrodites, scientists of that
time were realizing that the two sexes were not as neatly segregated as
conventional beliefs had previously maintained. Just as substituting evolution's
will for God's will shows how difficult it is to change a culture's
organizing principles, science, medicine, and psychoanalysis seemed
likewise unable to relinquish the long-standing cultural idea that "male"
and "female" are the standards against which all human expression
should be compared. Under the guise of Darwinism, and with heterosexual
procreativity (reproduction of the species) as the scientific standard,
nonprocreative and unconventional sexualities were redefined as aberrations
of nature's evolutionary male - female design.
Thus bisexuality became the compromise made by 19th-century scientists
unable to rethink the male - female binary. Science, instead, sought a
unifying concept that would explain the dizzying array of human sexualities
they were discovering. Common sense and tradition decreed that
there were only two sexes, whereas science seemed to be pointing to the
potential of human beings - at least to some degree - to become members
of either sex. After all, if man's primitive ancestral species could be
bisexual, so the theory went, perhaps the bisexual capacity resided within
man as well. As previously stated, Freud took this idea to its psychological
limit in his claim that all individuals are unconsciously bisexual. One significant
problem with psychoanalysis' bisexual narratives, but not the
only one, however, stems from the gender stereotypes that inform them.
Freud's sexual theories abound with quaint notions of masculinity and
femininity. Here is one example: "Women, especially if they grow up with
good looks, develop a certain self-contentment which compensates them
for the social restrictions that are imposed upon them in their choice of
object. . . . Nor does their need lie in the direction of loving, but of being
loved; and the man who fulfills this condition is the one who finds favor
with them - (Freud, 1914, pp. 88 - 89).
Freud, by defining activity as masculine and passivity as feminine, illustrated
how cultural gender categories become commentaries about male
and female nature. Freud, of course, could no more avoid stereotypes of
his culture than we can avoid those of our own. Yet, in his bisexual nosology,
women qua women are objects and men are subjects. Therefore, it is
possible for women to experience themselves as subjects only through
male identifications. In a 1920 case report, Freud said his lesbian patient
was a woman who loved like a man. He called her "a feminist," which in
Freud's time was another way of describing a woman who was too much
like a man (Bem, 1993). Similarly, given the economic parsimony of
Freud's bisexual world, a man's love for men could be regarded only as a
feminine trait. Claiming that the artist's homosexuality resulted from a
feminine identification, Freud (1910) said Leonardo da Vinci was a man
who loved like a woman, in his case, his mother. Ironically, Freud's rejection
of Ulrichs notwithstanding, the two of them told similar kinds of stories.
From a narrative perspective, a man's identification with his mother is
not altogether unlike a woman's spirit trapped in a man's body. Both stories
imply that there are only two genders and that some quality of one
gender has found its way into the other.
FOOTNOTES
1 In conventional male development, the fetus is "first female" and then male. In the 12th
week of pregnancy, male hormones (androgens) secreted by the testes initiate masculinization
of the fetus.
2 Additional personal and family history in the record is omitted here to protect confidentiality.
However, the chart informed any reader that the patient was unaware of this history.
3 There is a play on the double meaning of the term queer, historically a disparaging term for
gay people. "Queer" is deliberately appropriated as a marker of a unique, outsider's take on
cultural conventions.
4 There is a great deal of popular confusion between transsexualism and homosexuality.
However, it is extremely rare for those who stably identify as gay, lesbian or bisexual to have
the intense cross-gender identifications associated with transsexualism or to seek sex-reassignment
surgery (Drescher, Stein, and Byne, 2005).
5 Unlike homosexuality, which was removed from the American Psychiatric Association's
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual in 1973 (Bayer, 1981), today's manual, the DSM-IV-TR, includes
three transgendered diagnoses: gender identity of childhood, gender identity of
adulthood, and transvestitic fetishism (American Psychiatric Association, 2000). Paralleling
the homosexual protests of the mid-20th century, there are an increasing number of crossgender-
identified persons who challenge the characterization of their feelings as symptoms
of a mental disorder (Wilchins, 1997; Drescher, 2002a; also see Karasic and Drescher, 2006,
for a discussion of the gender identity diagnoses of the DSM).
6 Retrieved from multiculturalcenter.osu.edu/Posts/Documents/87_2.PDF, compiled by the
Intersex Initiative: http://www.intersexinitiative.org, January 28, 2006.
7 http://www.dsdguidelines.org/
8 Had she placed her tongue more firmly in her cheek, she might have designated men as
Fausto-Sterling "O's" or women to be F - S " 5's"
9 http://www.isna.org/
10 http://www.isna.org/library/hwa
11 After Freud's death, his theory of bisexuality was repudiated by Sandor Rado (1940). Of historical significance is that Rado' s formulations were a major influence on the subsequent
psychoanalytic theorists who regarded homosexuality as pathological (see Bayer, 1981).
12 See Lawrence (2004) for a discussion of autogynephilic transsexuals who are described as men who start out fantasizing about being a woman in a paraphilic/fetishistic way, which
may eventually lead to gender dysphoria.
13 Ulrichs defined a woman whom we would today call a lesbian as urningin.
14 Ulrichs, like Freud, turned to Greek mythology for his etymological sources. His terminology derived from a speech in Plato's Symposium that told of the elder Aphrodite, a daughter of slain Uranus, who was born out of the remains of her father's dismembered body. Because she had no mother and her birth involved no female participation, the Uranian
Aphrodite, according to Plato, inspired the love of men for men, and women for women
(Kaplan, 1950). Heterosexuals in this nosology were dioning - descendants of Zeus and the
mortal woman Dione.
15 Several years later, Freud (1920) would reiterate this view more disdainfully: "The mystery of homosexuality is therefore by no means so simple as it is commonly depicted in popular
expositions - ' a feminine mind, bound therefore to love a man, but unhappily attached to a masculine body; a masculine mind, irresistibly attracted by women, but, alas! imprisoned in
a feminine body.' . . . Tendentious literature has obscured our view of this interrelationship by putting into the foreground, for practical reasons [the kind of object choice], which is the
only one that strikes the layman, and in addition by exaggerating the closeness of the association
between this and [physical hermaphroditism] . . . two fundamental facts have been revealed
by psycho-analytic investigation. The first of these is that homosexual men have experienced
a specially strong fixation on their mother; the second, that, in addition to their manifest homosexuality, a very considerable measure of latent or unconscious homosexuality can be detected in all normal people. If these findings are taken into account, then,
clearly, the supposition that nature in a freakish mood created a "third sex"falls to the
ground"(pp. 170 - 171).
16 It is no small irony that science has revealed that all fetuses develop first as females.
17 Analysts trained in the interpersonal tradition will recognize elements of Sullivan's (1954)
"detailed inquiry" in the deconstructive methods of queer theorists.
18 One might add that the "lonely homosexual" is a cultural stereotype that further fuels the development of this kind of moral narrative.
19 I call this Freud's theory of immaturity (Drescher, 1998; 2002b); it does not pathologize, but instead juvenilizes diverse sexualities. In a broader context, this is what Mitchell (1988) called infantilism, a countertransferential use of psychoanalytic developmental theory in which the patient is regarded as a metaphorical baby while the therapist' s perspective is assumed to be the adult one.
Table 1
Trisexuality Tetrasexuality
(Three Proto-Gender Types) (Four Gender Types)
(1) Male ? (1) Men who love Men
(2) Female ? (2) Women who love Women
(3) Androgyne ? (3) Men who love Women
(4) Women who love Men
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